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Lessons from my 20s - what I wish I'd known

Things I learned in my 20s (and never seen before photos…)

December 31, 2020 Cassie hag diary

Solo Travel Q&A – the brutally honest truth after 2 years

May 17, 2020 Cassie four grid, hag diary, Solo Travel

What it’s Like to Live Abroad during a Global Crisis – Nomad’s Stories

April 6, 2020 Cassie hag diary

My 2019 Gratitudes and Setting New Intentions for 2020

January 6, 2020 Cassie hag diary

Why I wound up depressed backpacking Europe… and what I did about it

December 2, 2019 Cassie hag diary, Mental Health

Places I’d most like to visit WITH someone – solo travel series

July 29, 2019 Cassie hag diary

One Year of Solo Travel – Q&A & Personal Blog Post

May 1, 2019 Cassie four grid, hag diary, Solo Travel

What it’s like to move abroad on your own – an honest account of my five months in Melbourne

March 2, 2019 Cassie Australia, hag diary, Packing Tips, Saving and Budgeting, Solo Travel

The Ups, Downs and Highlights of Solo Travel – My 2018 Year in Review

February 2, 2019 Cassie four grid, hag diary, Solo Travel, Thailand

The challenges of Budget Solo Travel in Bali

September 12, 2018 Cassie hag diary

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Hi, I’m Cassie! I began travelling at 27 and haven’t looked back.

Since arriving alone in New Zealand in March 2020, I have situated myself in Auckland where I have been working full-time.

Alongside sharing my favourite North Island destinations, you can also find guides for destinations in Australia, Japan, Indonesia and Southeast Asia, and The Balkans.

Although I don’t advocate travel at this time, I hope my earnest posts on everything from solo backpacking to mental well-being on the road, will help prepare you for trips in the future.

Keep safe out there everyone.

Is there ever a need for travel when it doesn't be

<img src="https://cdn.shortpixel.ai/client/q_glossy,ret_img/https://cassiethehag.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed/img/placeholder.png" alt="Is there ever a need for travel when it doesn't benefit people or the planet? This has been a big question within sustainable tourism for a long time, and within the context of the global pandemic, a greater light has been shone on this conversation. What do you think - Is it ethical to travel & promote travel? (In any year?) A - always B - sometimes C - only if specific considerations are made D - rarely/never Yess I know that corporations make up the majority of the global carbon footprint. I am not asking this question to people who go on holiday once a while, but rather working WITHIN the travel industry - people work with brands/corporations 'we vote with our wallet' more often than we do at the ballot. Some ways to travel more ethically: 1 - Keep asking questions! Normalise open conversations around ethical travel issues. For example, asking travel providers what safety measures they're taking if planning on taking this year, ask how busy airports/travel hubs will expected to be, etc. & ensuring pandemic safety includes locals ie locals who live in the small stops along the way (for example, stopping at a small town on a road trip) 2 - Don't make assumptions on behalf of locals So... The locals are benefitting from us travelling, huh? It's hard to get a broad perspective from a community - speak to someone who works with broad sectors of the community, as well as locals themselves, rather than influencers who've visited/travel agencies 3 - Travel more sustainably - whether that's offsetting your carbon footprint or choosing newer aircraft on a direct route, or kindly asking your hotel to only wash your bedding/towels twice a week. Slow travel, public transport, and local food halls (bonus if there's vegan options and you take your own utensils) are other great options. 4 - animal tourism is generally bad. If you're not an expert, usually it's best to avoid it 5 - support local businesses, local-run tours and accommodation & respect indigenous communities alongside the wealthier locals/expats 6 - Fact check before sharing online that somethings ethica... & watch out for 'greenwashing'! What else? 😍😍">

Is there ever a need for travel when it doesn't benefit people or the planet? This has been a big question within sustainable tourism for a long time, and within the context of the global pandemic, a greater light has been shone on this conversation. What do you think - Is it ethical to travel & promote travel? (In any year?) A - always
B - sometimes
C - only if specific considerations are made
D - rarely/never Yess I know that corporations make up the majority of the global carbon footprint. I am not asking this question to people who go on holiday once a while, but rather working WITHIN the travel industry - people work with brands/corporations 'we vote with our wallet' more often than we do at the ballot. Some ways to travel more ethically: 1 - Keep asking questions! Normalise open conversations around ethical travel issues. For example, asking travel providers what safety measures they're taking if planning on taking this year, ask how busy airports/travel hubs will expected to be, etc.
& ensuring pandemic safety includes locals ie locals who live in the small stops along the way (for example, stopping at a small town on a road trip) 2 - Don't make assumptions on behalf of locals So... The locals are benefitting from us travelling, huh? It's hard to get a broad perspective from a community - speak to someone who works with broad sectors of the community, as well as locals themselves, rather than influencers who've visited/travel agencies 3 - Travel more sustainably - whether that's offsetting your carbon footprint or choosing newer aircraft on a direct route, or kindly asking your hotel to only wash your bedding/towels twice a week. Slow travel, public transport, and local food halls (bonus if there's vegan options and you take your own utensils) are other great options. 4 - animal tourism is generally bad. If you're not an expert, usually it's best to avoid it 5 - support local businesses, local-run tours and accommodation
& respect indigenous communities alongside the wealthier locals/expats 6 -
Fact check before sharing online that somethings ethica...
& watch out for 'greenwashing'! What else? 😍😍

Camera trickery rather than cliff unsafery - I've

<img src="https://cdn.shortpixel.ai/client/q_glossy,ret_img/https://cassiethehag.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed/img/placeholder.png" alt="Camera trickery rather than cliff unsafery - I've done some jaw-dropping solo hikes, but that particular evening was spent exploring a local beach area with a local friend @robmulally. It actually took me like 18 months to post because I was worried it was irresponsible - after seeing the photo, it looked more unsafe than it appeared at the time. But at this point, I figured a disclaimer was OK. I have people ask how I'm wearing long skirts on hikes (I was walking along a flat surface beside a river... I literally wear a skirt/dress almost every day walking to work so that one confused me). & anytime I've genuinely done something that felt a bit unsafe (you know, being a solo female traveller and all), the last thing I would have done is got my camera out and take a photo. Once someone asked me why, if I talk about mental health so much, are my photos so nice... I tried to explain that panic attack selfies really aren't my vibe, haha. Besides, I'm not a photographer and have never claimed to be. I work with words, not images. But for real, on an average backpacker day I'm concentrating on getting to where I need to go with sensory overload, and having my wits about me. Most days travelling, I didn't take a photo, or just one or two quick ones for the memory - and my blog! What do you think? Genuine question that will help inform my decisions on what to post on the future: Do you think it's OK to post photos that look unsafe (even if you know it wasn't)?">

Camera trickery rather than cliff unsafery - I've done some jaw-dropping solo hikes, but that particular evening was spent exploring a local beach area with a local friend @robmulally. It actually took me like 18 months to post because I was worried it was irresponsible - after seeing the photo, it looked more unsafe than it appeared at the time. But at this point, I figured a disclaimer was OK. I have people ask how I'm wearing long skirts on hikes (I was walking along a flat surface beside a river... I literally wear a skirt/dress almost every day walking to work so that one confused me). & anytime I've genuinely done something that felt a bit unsafe (you know, being a solo female traveller and all), the last thing I would have done is got my camera out and take a photo. Once someone asked me why, if I talk about mental health so much, are my photos so nice... I tried to explain that panic attack selfies really aren't my vibe, haha. Besides, I'm not a photographer and have never claimed to be. I work with words, not images. But for real, on an average backpacker day I'm concentrating on getting to where I need to go with sensory overload, and having my wits about me. Most days travelling, I didn't take a photo, or just one or two quick ones for the memory - and my blog! What do you think?
Genuine question that will help inform my decisions on what to post on the future: Do you think it's OK to post photos that look unsafe (even if you know it wasn't)?

What scares you the most about solo female travel?

<img src="https://cdn.shortpixel.ai/client/q_glossy,ret_img/https://cassiethehag.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed/img/placeholder.png" alt="What scares you the most about solo female travel? For many, the answer appears to be loneliness. This is interesting to me, and I huge sense of warmth to those to answer in this way. But interestingly, my REASON for solo travel was loneliness - it was already an obstacle in my life and had been since I was tiny. But as I approached 30, it was becoming harder to relate to others, and to make new adult friends, and to feel fulfilled. I wanted to be lost physically instead of mentally. I've spoke to other women, too, who didn't want to solo travel because they felt it could delay their career, or meeting someone. But safety is the PRESUMED fear for female solo travellers, but in my experience most women don't feel truly safe anywhere. I was a very inexperienced traveller when I left my birth country alone at 27... But moving to South London at 18 definitely was more dangerous. The privilege of travel always overshadowed the fear of being alone in a new place. And while I won't ever go into the events that led the PTSD I experienced in my birth country online, the short version is that staying was scarier than leaving. Because leaving was a choice - leaving was a second chance. Leaving was something which belonged completely to me And whatever fear, or loneliness, or emotion struck through me during my many months solo on the road, I felt an overwhelmed with gratitude all the same. I felt so humbled to be a woman - to be a human - who could make the choice to live">

What scares you the most about solo female travel? For many, the answer appears to be loneliness. This is interesting to me, and I huge sense of warmth to those to answer in this way. But interestingly, my REASON for solo travel was loneliness - it was already an obstacle in my life and had been since I was tiny. But as I approached 30, it was becoming harder to relate to others, and to make new adult friends, and to feel fulfilled. I wanted to be lost physically instead of mentally. I've spoke to other women, too, who didn't want to solo travel because they felt it could delay their career, or meeting someone. But safety is the PRESUMED fear for female solo travellers, but in my experience most women don't feel truly safe anywhere. I was a very inexperienced traveller when I left my birth country alone at 27...
But moving to South London at 18 definitely was more dangerous. The privilege of travel always overshadowed the fear of being alone in a new place. And while I won't ever go into the events that led the PTSD I experienced in my birth country online, the short version is that staying was scarier than leaving. Because leaving was a choice - leaving was a second chance. Leaving was something which belonged completely to me And whatever fear, or loneliness, or emotion struck through me during my many months solo on the road, I felt an overwhelmed with gratitude all the same. I felt so humbled to be a woman - to be a human - who could make the choice to live

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